The Mark Zuckerberg Guide to Building Facebook Profiles

by Neil Patel

mark zuckerberg

Who better?

When marketers are faced with building a powerful Facebook profiles, they are quick to say:

Hey, I’m no Zuckerberg!

But really, who better than Zuckerberg to copy? Not only does he know the ins and outs of Facebook, but he knows what Facebook users like.

So lets see what good ol’ Zuck can teach you about creating a powerful Facebook profile.

Step #1: To be a cool kid, you have to be friends with cool kids

As you already know, Mark is well connected. Not only does he know famous web celebrities like Sean Parker, Peter Thiel, and Marc Andreessen, but he also knows Barack Obama.

When you are friends with the cool kids, you are naturally perceived as being “cool”. When you are perceived as being cool, people will start requesting you to become their friend.

So if you want to create a Facebook profile that’s not just popular, but powerful, you need to start requesting the cool kids to become your “friend”. Many of them will say no because they don’t know you, but for every 10 cool kids you request 1 to 3 will accept your friendship.

You’ll need to do this until 100 influential people accept your friend request. Once you reach that point, you’ll notice that a lot of random people on a daily basis will request your friendship on Facebook. The reason for this is usually because influencers have a lot of friends and their friends tend to look through their profile to see whom they are also friends with.

Step #2: Don’t forget about your real friends

Now that you are friends with the in crowd, you shouldn’t let it get to your head. These influencers are really busy and have so many friends that they’ll rarely bother to read your profile or even like/comment the stuff you put on your wall.

In order to counter act this you’ll actually have to add your real friends on Facebook, just like how Mark is still friends with the people he knew before he became rich. From family members to childhood friends, you want to be friends with people who actually care about you because they’ll care about what you have to say.

You typically can find your real friends on Facebook by giving them access to your email account. Through it, they’ll be able to see who you communicate with on a regular basis and see if those people are on Facebook. If they are, the system will suggest that you add them as a friend.

Step #3: Don’t be shy

Mark isn’t the most out going guy. However, just because you may be shy or awkward in real life doesn’t mean you have to be that way online.

Feel free to make your profile very thorough, upload some pictures of yourself, write on your wall and most importantly start writing on your friends’ walls. If you don’t become more social you won’t do well on Facebook or any social networking website, for that matter.

The strategy I like to use is:

  1. Post on your wall daily – I typically like to post something interesting that happened to me, or something I learned or even a quote. What I’ve found is that quotes tend to go the most viral on Facebook.
  2. Engage with your friends on your wall – when my friends comment on my wall I try to do my best to respond to them. This lets them, as well as others, know that I care to hear what they have to say and more importantly I appreciate them. Remember, no one likes talking to themselves.
  3. Engage with your friends – every day I “like” at least one thing one of my friends says and comment on at least one of their profiles. I try to do this with friends who typically don’t engage on my wall as it encourages new people to interact with my wall.
  4. Don’t be predictable – once a week I like to do something out of the ordinary so that it boosts engagement more than normal. This usually means that I am posting something that is either really funny or somewhat controversial. One of my unpredictable postings was “If eye-rolling burned calories, women would never have to diet.”
  5. Don’t create enemies – you can easily create enemies with what you post on Facebook. You’ve spent so long gaining friends, why would you want to risk losing them? I typically avoid posting political or religious things onFacebook. Heck, even after I posted that eye-rolling quote I posted one about men so I wouldn’t seem sexist: “If ball-scratching burned calories, men would never have to diet”.

Step #4: Not all friends are equal

Mark Zuckerberg doesn’t accept everyone as his friend, which means you shouldn’t either. So instead of just accepting anyone that you know, you should be a bit scientific as Facebook limits your profile to 5000 friends.

After capping out at 5000 friends I did a bit of digging into my Facebook profile and I quickly learned a few things:

  • Little is the new big – although it’s wise to be friends with a few influencers, your goal shouldn’t be to friend them all. Although 47% of my friends have over 500 connections (people who their friends with), they only account for 21% of my engagement. Friends who have less than 500 connections account for 79% of the engagement on my profile wall.
  • Go worldwide – 62% of my friends aren’t located in the United States. Those friends account for over 83% of the engagement on my Facebook wall.
  • Women are powerful – 16% of my friends are female, yet they account for 22% of the engagement on my wall. I wish I befriended more females earlier on, but I guess it’s too late as I am capped out at 5000 friends.

Before you go and cap out your profile at 5000 friends, don’t make the same mistakes I did. Be careful about who you accept as a friend as it can affect how powerful your profile will be.

Step #5: There’s nothing wrong with self-promoting.

One thing that Zuckerberg tends to do is promote himself on Facebook. Heck, he does this on his Fan Page. From promoting his Time Magazine cover to being on Saturday Night Live, he lets everyone know what he is up to.

Don’t be afraid to let others know what you are doing with your business because it’s not only a good way to get traffic, but it can also drive customers.

I let all of my friends know what my company is up to, I also go as far as promoting my personal brand on Facebook. Every time I write a blog post, I share it on my Facebook wall.

Over the last few years I’ve learned that if you want to self promote, timing is everything. I’ve posted on my Facebook profile during each day of the week and even during holidays. I’ve even posted every single hour during the day imaginable. With my friend base, I tend to get the most engagement when I post between the hours of 8am and 11am PST. And the peak days for me tend to be Monday, Wednesday or Thursday.

Conclusion

If you follow Mark Zuckerberg’s footsteps, chances are you won’t become a billionaire like him. But what you can expect is to create a Facebook profile that isn’t just popular, but will be powerful.

Stop wasting time, get out there and build up your Facebook presence. No matter what business venture or career path you decide to take, you can always use your Facebook profile to promote it.

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Snap September 6, 2011 at

awww SNAP, love it. I think you learned a lot after reaching 5000 friends, great analysis Neil :)

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Neil Patel September 6, 2011 at

I definitely learned a thing or two. Thanks for reading, glad I could provide some insights.

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Harleena Singh September 6, 2011 at

Hi Neil,

Great post!

I could not agree more with the above mentioned points, and do try following most of the above. Earlier it was very tough to say no to people sending you invitations on Facebook and Twitter, and to increase the number of followers, I did accept and followed them back. As a result, there were lots of spam followers and posts all over!

However, I unfollowed many people recently- who unliked and unfollowed me as well-which just proved that they were not real fans- and now I am much better off to have a few selected good fans and followers.

Thanks for sharing :)

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Neil Patel September 6, 2011 at

You really have to choose who you follow wisely. It’s definitely trial and error. Hopefully you have reached that happy medium where you are following friends and a steady mix of key opinion leaders.

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Steve September 6, 2011 at

I agree it’s not a waste of time, but it can get very addictive… and very personal if you let it. I mean you’re putting yourself out there for the world to see.

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Neil Patel September 6, 2011 at

Steve, great point. I think you really have to manage your image and brand wisely. You are exposing yourself to anyone and everyone out there. 1 degree of separation!

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Robinsh September 6, 2011 at

I did some changes in my facebook activities after reading this article and guess what ?

Yeah I got the results and 10% extra conversion today at all of my blogs including this personal one.

Thanks

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Neil Patel September 6, 2011 at

Wow, sounds like you really benefited from utilizing the tips. Good luck and keep up the good work!

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Yogesh Sarkar September 6, 2011 at

Good points, guess in a race to make as many friends as we can, we often end up just adding those who too are in the same rat race and thus, unlikely to respond to your posts, since they are busy promoting their own!

Having said that, I personally feel that it is best to befriend those who are interested in things you do, rather than random individuals, who wouldn’t likely be interested in what you are posting about anyways!

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Neil Patel September 6, 2011 at

It is vitally important to follow people who are in the same game as you. If you befriend everyone then you really haven’t friended anyone. It is also vital to share feedback and engage with the people who follow you. Thanks for reading Yogesh!

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sky September 6, 2011 at

Is there any way of getting influence people to like our business (small) pages as there is no ‘invite’ button any more?

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Neil Patel September 6, 2011 at

Hmm, I would have to look into it and get back to you. can you clarify your question..?

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sky September 7, 2011 at

If you want to be a friend with somebody you send an invite to them and they either accept or decline. But this is not possible to do with you business page, as fas as I am aware. You cannot invite anybody to ‘Like’ your page. Hope its more clear now.

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

You can recommend that your “personal friends” become fans of your business page.

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Brian P September 6, 2011 at

So women are the key to facebook! Awesome will try this!

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Awesome, let me know how it works out!

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Paul Carter September 6, 2011 at

Some nice ideas about facebook interactions and marketing. Thanks for the info. Paul

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Glad you found them helpful Paul, let me know how it works for you!

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Zaira September 6, 2011 at

Great points Neil… There is lots to learn from Zuckerberg!! Idea to be on Social networking sites isn’t that easy…!! Regular engagements is the key to successful Social marketing..

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Definitely, regular engagement and quality content are of the utmost importance. Good luck with your social networking.

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Ben @ BankAim September 20, 2011 at

And replying to those ‘engagements’ is key. Just like what Neil does here.. he comments on every single comment! Facebook is something our business needs to get in on!

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

Thanks,

It is important to make sure those who give you their time, get back the same courtesy. Even if it takes a little while to do.

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Shilpi Singha Roy September 6, 2011 at

You can’t engage your audience until you have an audience to engage. Once you have the audience, don’t forget to engage. Engagement is how you will keep an audience. And its fair easier to keep a relationship than to create a new one. Thanks for the great post.
Online Business Virtual Assistant

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Shilpi that is a great summary of the article. Thanks for reading, and good luck with your social engagement.

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Web Design Resource September 6, 2011 at

Complete profile, make cool friends, like other posts is the best way to make your profile popular :)

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Those are some other essential points, thanks for adding to the list :)

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Web Design Resource September 7, 2011 at

You have helped me lot through this post so i only gave you a return mate :)

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

Thanks! And you have helped me out by participating on Quick Sprout. I really appreciate it.

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Florentzos Vardakis September 7, 2011 at

Hi Mark i am interested to use Face book to face book for finding people for business

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

I am not Mark, but you should follow the tips above and you will be able to engage your audience :)

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sam @ goa carnival September 7, 2011 at

Great idea to make more and more friends on facebook all tips are great and too useful for Social Media sites.

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Thanks Sam, glad you found the article helpful. Good luck!

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Invoice Templates September 7, 2011 at

Most like to put female pic even if they are male. And other also know them that they are male. Why it is?

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

I haven’t come across that experience haha. Maybe, some people like to engage in different ways?

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Whole Body Vibration September 7, 2011 at

Mark who?

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Whole Body Vibration September 12, 2011 at

So my joke didn’t go over so well…Yes there is a lot to learn from Mark, and his success.

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Neil Patel September 13, 2011 at

Definitely, sorry didn’t catch the comment at first. Enjoyed the joke ;)

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

Cuban? LOL

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fas September 7, 2011 at

Hoping for a similar follow up for Twitter strategies.

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

I will try to pump out a blog post about Twitter, thanks!

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anand Rathore September 7, 2011 at

perfect Neil..

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Thanks Anand, hope it helped :)

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Morgan Bagshaw September 7, 2011 at

Neil thanks for sharing this breakdown! It’s interesting that “little is the new big” on FB- we may see an actual return to authentic relationships and not simply amassing numbers.

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

I think keeping it simple has always been the standard. I hope for much of the same, thanks for reading :)

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Brad Gardner September 7, 2011 at

Great article Neil, thanks for keeping it simple! I often go back-and-forth as to the usage of facebook as it can get dramatic sometimes. This is a good reminder to be mindful of our choices when it comes to facebook friends!
Cheers!

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Definitely, you really have to hold your tongue and be mindful of your audience when you post certain things on FB.

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rakesh kumar September 7, 2011 at

Women are awesome attractor of friends. If you have a lots of girls friends every one wants to be your friends and this is also true in case of facebook.

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

I have heard similar stories, women are always helpful in that they are intelligent and great communicators. Men are just grunts ;)

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johnQ September 16, 2011 at

This is a great tip :) ) I have to make more female friends to attract more male friends. Interesting :) I will give it a try :D

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

Try it out and let me know your results.

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Reshonda September 7, 2011 at

Hey that’s a really great post! Most times people dont how to use facebook or even they dont know what to do. You kept it simple and sweet. Now readers can see how fb is suppose to be use.:)

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Neil Patel September 7, 2011 at

Glad you enjoyed the post Reshonda, good luck with your social engagement :)

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Kay Wilson September 7, 2011 at

Neil, love your philosophy. Who should we copy but the Leader, Mark, of course! Great suggestion. K

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

He is the standard. So yes, I agree, we must follow him :)

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Anthony September 7, 2011 at

Thanks so much Neil. The article was so insightful.

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Neil Patel September 13, 2011 at

Anthony, glad I could help you out :)

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Dave Rogers September 7, 2011 at

Thanks Neil. One can learn not only from what you have gleaned from others but “HOW” you use that to communicate. Thanks again for the multi-layered tips and tricks.

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

Putting your work into action, then testing and results is the best way to improve your communication. Glad you found the tips useful :)

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Ren September 7, 2011 at

Thank you Neil!!!!
I’m still very new on FB profile and this is just what I need… my oh my, once again I am glad I found your blog when I decided to do blogging again. I’ve learnt tons of thing s from this blog so far, am starting to see blogging not just for hobby.
Keep posting, sure I’ll be one of the first readers!

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

Thanks Ren! Really appreciate the kind words I am glad you are finding my tips and trips useful. Good luck :)

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Tom Stutzman September 7, 2011 at

Facebook is a great place where you can promote your new business very easily, BUT in a proper way. Your post is very nice.

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

Thanks, glad you found it useful. Good luck with your new business.

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Astrologer in Delhi September 7, 2011 at

“To be a cool Kid, You need to friend Cool Kids” Its quite cool.

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

lol it really is cool, thanks for reading!

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David | Invest in Africa September 8, 2011 at

The Cool Kids hmmm…I am working on this.
Thanks Neil and you definately make a point that Facebook is the second most popular website so it is definitely a plus to use it and use it wisely.

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

It is very essential to use it wisely and to work on improving your social footprint. Good luck!

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Dilanka Wettewa September 8, 2011 at

Pretty good overview of how to ace Facebook.
Another quick tip: Rotate and Add more images/photos. People LOVE photos :)

Thanks Neil :)
P.S: I think you missed a typo here buddy: “..requesting the cool kids to becomee your..

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

Definitely, thanks for the tip. I’ll look into the typo, thanks for pointing it out.

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wobenzym September 8, 2011 at

Yes its necessary to remember real friends because we don’t fell shy with them.

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

Definitely, it’s always easy to be yourself around those who you know well.

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perth internet marketing September 8, 2011 at

It may be terrifying sometimes if you think of exposing yourself to the world and what you say and do can draw misunderstanding and criticism from billions of people. But it is also a wonderful opportunity to make a name for yourself and contribute something significant. This article shows you just have to play it right. Great tips as always Neil!

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

No problem. Hopefully they help you leverage Facebook more so that you can drive more visitors to your website. Best of luck!

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Sam September 8, 2011 at

Good suggestions. Facebook rocks!

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Neil Patel September 8, 2011 at

No problem Sam. If you have any suggestions you would like to share with the Quick Sprout readers, feel free and leave a comment.

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Wine Glass Rack September 10, 2011 at

I agree it’s not a waste of time, but it can get very addictive… and very personal if you let it. I mean you’re putting yourself out there for the world to see.

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Neil Patel September 12, 2011 at

It certainly can be,
It is definitely revealing of who you are and what you think.

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recording studios uk September 11, 2011 at

What are the penalties if someone gets caught pretending to be a famous person on Facebook? I don’t do this. I’m just wondering because there are so many fake profiles.

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Neil Patel September 12, 2011 at

From what I know, I believe the fake Facebook page will be deleted.
Now I don’t know if that is all that will be the only penalty but you are right quite a few people create fake profiles.

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smart pens September 12, 2011 at

Neil, may I ask. What do not know? haha. Seems like from one thing to another you definitely have something to say. Not just something but very powerful and everything makes sense. This tip goes to people who wants to get noticed and build connections. Great tips once again.

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Neil Patel September 13, 2011 at

Thanks,
There are definitely quite a few things I still have yet to learn.
All the time I am constantly learning, so that I can be constantly improving.
I am glad I could be of useful information to you.

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Shabby Chic Furniture September 13, 2011 at

:) probably it wasn’t Mark himself

thank you for sharing

p.s. Mark has got cool friends? really? .. c’mon he owns FB!

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Neil Patel September 13, 2011 at

Meaning all of his friends are cool ;) .

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architects September 14, 2011 at

Facebook till now hasn’t provided the option of knowing who has visited our profile recently.But does the profiles of members shown under peoples you may know means they have visited our profiles although profiles of members having mutual friends are also shown under the said category.

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

Although I like that feature, I think some will see it as creepy.

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Tech-pill September 15, 2011 at

Before even completing the post, I have to ask are you friends with Mark on Fb?

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

I am not. I don’t know him…

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Tech-pill September 15, 2011 at

Now that I have finished reading, I am really surprised to know that there is a limit of 5000 friends on fb. I would have definitely sent you a friend request. Let me know if you are planning to delete a few of friends or creating a new account separating professional fb contacts with personal. Do you think it is a good idea to do that?

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

I appreciate the offer, but I try not to delete any of the friends I have added.

I’ll let you know if I create a separate profile.

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Parenting: The First 12 Months September 15, 2011 at

I too had no idea you were limited to 5k friends. Mind you, I don´t think I know more than 500 people in real life.

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

It’s not who you know in real life, it’s how you can get connected with over the web. ;)

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recording studios uk September 15, 2011 at

The solution is to stop thinking in the terms of rules (what can be done, what is legal) and start thinking in practical terms (what should be done, what is a bad thing to do that we can do but avoid). If we do that, parents won’t peep at their children’s profiles, friends won’t upload pics without asking their friends first, etc.

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Neil Patel September 16, 2011 at

So many people upload bad pictures to Facebook. They think it is cool now, but as they get older they will realize how big of a mistake that was.

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PIM September 18, 2011 at

It is always a delight to feel what I believe – that information is inspiration. Thanks for sharing.

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Neil Patel September 18, 2011 at

Nicely said, I like that quote. I might use that sometime. Thank YOU for sharing. ;)

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AIEEE 2012 September 19, 2011 at

I could not agree more with the above mentioned points, and do try following most of the above. Earlier it was very tough to say no to people sending you invitations on Facebook and Twitter, and to increase the number of followers, I did accept and followed them back. As a result, there were lots of spam followers and posts all over!

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Neil Patel September 19, 2011 at

It is hard to turn down so many potential followers. You would think adding everyone would be a great way to increase traffic. Unfortunately like you said spam can start to take over and ruin a good thing.

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Suzy Coupons September 19, 2011 at

The solution is to stop thinking in the terms of rules (what can be done, what is legal) and start thinking in practical terms (what should be done, what is a bad thing to do that we can do but avoid). If we do that, parents won’t peep at their children’s profiles, friends won’t upload pics without asking their friends first, etc.

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Neil Patel September 19, 2011 at

Interesting point of view. That is one way to see it. It would be nice if eventually that could happen.

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JohnQ September 19, 2011 at

I heard that Facebook is interested in buying Twitter. Google is also interested. I am curious if Twitter will be sold and to who. What plans Facebook on doing with Twitter?

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

That is interesting. I am sure once they all decide what they are doing and the deals are made, we will all find out.

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johnQ September 26, 2011 at

But still, this is an interesting strategy from both companies. Each one will definitely have different plans with Twitter. I am curious which will benefit more.

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Neil Patel October 9, 2011 at

It is interesting, I can’t wait to see.

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Comforter Sets September 19, 2011 at

Thank you for sharing. My only problem is that I want to curtail the time I spend on facebook marketing. It is time comsuming

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

No problem. I understand completely, it is extremely time consuming. I would suggest hiring someone to help with the load if you can swing it. If not then it may just be something you have to do until you can afford the extra help. The time spent marketing should be worth it.

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S.Manoj POandian September 20, 2011 at

Thanks a lot for this post. That was really inspiring me a lot.

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

Happy to hear it. Hopefully it was as useful as well as inspiring. :)

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budget travel September 20, 2011 at

Hello there , i am new here , i have created one facebook fan page for my new blog related to travel . I can show you the link to my fan page if necessary but i don`t know how to invite my friends to see my fan page . Is there a way to invite peoples to see my fan page on facebook ??

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

There should be, unfortunately I don’t know how.

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P&G Coupons September 22, 2011 at

Thank you Neil!!!!
I’m still very new on FB profile and this is just what I need… my oh my, once again I am glad I found your blog when I decided to do blogging again. I’ve learnt tons of thing s from this blog so far, am starting to see blogging not just for hobby.
Keep posting, sure I’ll be one of the first readers!

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

Glad I could help. Thanks, hopefully what you learned will be useful to your blog. It definitely can be so much more then a hobby.
Best of luck.

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Bhavik Bhavsar September 22, 2011 at

Hi Neil

Great post!

After reading this, I will try My Facebook profile not just only popular, but will be powerful.

Thanks
Bhavik

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

Thanks,

Definitely, a very valuable combination. I hope it will be.

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john@web design london September 22, 2011 at

Facebook profile should be true its should not be fake one its will bring bad neighborhood with others

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Neil Patel September 22, 2011 at

I agree, it can be more trouble and less profitable to have a fake Facebook.

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office furniture September 25, 2011 at

Hey there would you mind sharing which blog platform you’re working with? I’m going to start my own blog soon but I’m having a hard time choosing between BlogEngine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal. The reason I ask is because your design seems different then most blogs and I’m looking for something unique. P.S Sorry for getting off-topic but I had to ask!

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Neil Patel September 28, 2011 at

I would suggest using wordpress, it is easy to work off of for beginners.

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Prabhat October 4, 2011 at

good one really like and applying the things on my facebook :)

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Neil Patel October 9, 2011 at

Glad to hear it. I hope it helps.

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Internet Marketing October 4, 2011 at

My friends from the PH should develop this. When I read this, I was like they should read this. First of all, they are shy to show what they are good at. 2nd they feel that once they promote themselves, they are lifting themselves which they don’t want to. I want them to develop self confidence. I want them to be proud sometime about they can do not boast but be proud.

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Neil Patel October 9, 2011 at

Definitely, let them know to check it out and try it for themselves. Self confidence is a great asset. If you can’t be proud and confident in yourself then you can’t expect others to be either.

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Berenice Meeder October 8, 2011 at

Hi there would you mind letting me know which hosting company you’re using? I’ve loaded your blog in 3 completely different browsers and I must say this blog loads a lot quicker then most. Can you suggest a good hosting provider at a fair price? Thank you, I appreciate it!

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Neil Patel October 9, 2011 at

I use Slicehost. Try that one I think it will work best for you

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Daniel October 12, 2011 at

Hi Neil,

Thank you for sharing your insights on the steps Mark Zuckerberg takes to build his Facebook profile.

I have a question however, for a lot of us, we use Facebook as a means to communicate and keep in touch with our friends and family, by adding people who are influential and subsequently more random people, would you be compromising on the security of the information that is readily and easily available on our Facebook profiles?

What are your views? Hear from you soon! Have a great day!

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Neil Patel October 20, 2011 at

I understand your concern. I may self have two facebooks, one for friends and family and the other for business. Also it is wise in general to not have too much information, especially personal, on your facebook to begin with.

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Kashif October 14, 2011 at

Its important that we should realize that who is our real friends. We should never forget friends who gave us love and appreciation when weren’t rich or successful.

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Neil Patel October 20, 2011 at

Definitely, remembering the people who were around before your success are key to appreciate and value.

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skype callnplay November 28, 2011 at

a big check to everything written. Building yourself, then building your connection equates building your business. Self promoting is definitely not bad as long you don’t go over the top. It means you’re just back down.

kimmi

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Neil Patel November 28, 2011 at

Yep, you have got it. Seems like you know exactly what to do.

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skype callnplay December 5, 2011 at

Thanks for the encouraging words. I know I am on the right track. And getting a positive answer from you, makes it more motivating.

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website company noida November 28, 2011 at

teaming up with the big guys is the fastest way to success therefore sending friend request to the already popular facebook profiles makes sense.

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Neil Patel November 28, 2011 at

Yep, having big names to help you out or back you up is extremely beneficial.

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Yasir Khan Quantum SEO December 4, 2011 at

Nice Post Neil,
But don’t you think that having players from your niche and those who matter to your business should be there? having a few big guns may be good, but the maximum number should of real friends and niche people. What do you think?

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denver business lawyers December 8, 2011 at

I think Mark is right about women posting more on FB, I read this article a while back and created a new account. I followed these instructions added around 1,500 females initially. After that I got around 8,000 friend’s request in a matter of days. Unfortunately I can’t be friends with more than 5k People.

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Houses for Sale in Chula Vista December 13, 2011 at

An awesome Facebook profile goes a long way. These tips are very good and should be followed!

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