Comments on: Are you bringing out the best in others? http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/ I'm Kind of a Big Deal Sun, 01 Aug 2010 01:30:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-67948 Neil Patel Thu, 10 Jun 2010 01:53:59 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-67948 what do you mean by you asking your parents? what do you mean by you asking your parents?

]]> By: Inner Game http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-67875 Inner Game Mon, 07 Jun 2010 00:50:13 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-67875 its complicated to actualy know how much influence you can get on others, ask my parents,when i was a teenager, at least thats my opinion its complicated to actualy know how much influence you can get on others, ask my parents,when i was a teenager, at least thats my opinion

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-54837 Neil Patel Thu, 05 Nov 2009 03:24:12 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-54837 Hey I'm rooting you on! Can't wait to see it happen :) Hey I’m rooting you on! Can’t wait to see it happen :)

]]> By: John http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-54764 John Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:46:09 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-54764 Another great post neil i bring out the best i always cheer people on i never hate if your a millionaire i feel good for you just remember ill be there one day right along with you. Another great post neil i bring out the best i always cheer people on i never hate if your a millionaire i feel good for you just remember ill be there one day right along with you.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-50234 Neil Patel Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:38:09 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-50234 Right, that's the last type of person you want to be (slave driver) There any many many more productive ways to go after this approach. Right, that’s the last type of person you want to be (slave driver) There any many many more productive ways to go after this approach.

]]> By: Buy PSP Go http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-49658 Buy PSP Go Wed, 22 Jul 2009 08:06:39 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-49658 This is an important point to remember once you have employees. It may seem that the 'slave driver' approach will get the most out of you workers but take a leaf out of Googles Book and give them a bit of freedom and encouragement. This is an important point to remember once you have employees. It may seem that the ’slave driver’ approach will get the most out of you workers but take a leaf out of Googles Book and give them a bit of freedom and encouragement.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-48728 Neil Patel Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:05:44 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-48728 That is a good idea. Plus it won't cost you a lot to do it. That is a good idea. Plus it won’t cost you a lot to do it.

]]> By: The Work At Home Blog http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-48640 The Work At Home Blog Tue, 09 Jun 2009 10:03:42 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-48640 Create a professional logo and theme with their name for that individual if they are trying to build a business for encouragement. I think stuff like that uplift the spirit in people. Nice post Neil! Create a professional logo and theme with their name for that individual if they are trying to build a business for encouragement. I think stuff like that uplift the spirit in people. Nice post Neil!

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-44163 Neil Patel Thu, 12 Feb 2009 01:14:23 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-44163 That's right, you also want to be supportive when they are doing well. That’s right, you also want to be supportive when they are doing well.

]]> By: Custom Silicone Bracelets http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-44103 Custom Silicone Bracelets Mon, 09 Feb 2009 20:38:30 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-44103 If they are in a good position in life tell them that they are doing good. Take them out for drinks or lunch or something and discuss how they are doing so well. Then if you have any ways to increase them tell them your ideas. Being casual and having fun is the best way to move to the next level. If they are in a good position in life tell them that they are doing good. Take them out for drinks or lunch or something and discuss how they are doing so well. Then if you have any ways to increase them tell them your ideas. Being casual and having fun is the best way to move to the next level.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-43103 Neil Patel Thu, 22 Jan 2009 03:26:22 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-43103 It is, but it takes a lot of work, which some people aren't willing to do. It is, but it takes a lot of work, which some people aren’t willing to do.

]]> By: Art http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-43046 Art Wed, 21 Jan 2009 02:45:49 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-43046 helping other people is definitely the best way to help yourself long term helping other people is definitely the best way to help yourself long term

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-42859 Neil Patel Mon, 19 Jan 2009 21:22:23 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-42859 The cool thing that you find out after you start encouraging your friends, is that they will do it to you as well. The cool thing that you find out after you start encouraging your friends, is that they will do it to you as well.

]]> By: Nicole Price http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-42705 Nicole Price Sat, 17 Jan 2009 15:56:01 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-42705 Express appreciation for what they are already doing and encourage them to become better at what they are doing - kaizen! Express appreciation for what they are already doing and encourage them to become better at what they are doing – kaizen!

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-41000 Neil Patel Tue, 09 Dec 2008 23:23:47 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-41000 What hot girl doesn't bring out the best in a guy? ;-) What hot girl doesn’t bring out the best in a guy? ;-)

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-40999 Neil Patel Tue, 09 Dec 2008 23:23:24 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-40999 I'll check out your blog. Thanks for all of the comments! I’ll check out your blog. Thanks for all of the comments!

]]> By: Kenney and Kim http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-40938 Kenney and Kim Sun, 07 Dec 2008 02:00:16 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-40938 Now Neil...are you implying that these girls bring out the best in you? lol ;) Nice post. You always keep me thinking. Now Neil…are you implying that these girls bring out the best in you? lol ;) Nice post. You always keep me thinking.

]]> By: Vakfıkebir http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-40897 Vakfıkebir Fri, 05 Dec 2008 14:26:26 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-40897 I did too, I am a huge Neil Fan, just subscribed to your feed, you should check out mine. I did too, I am a huge Neil Fan, just subscribed to your feed, you should check out mine.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-39779 Neil Patel Mon, 20 Oct 2008 03:35:42 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-39779 The results are great, but the problem is getting to accept that others are trying to help you out. Most people are closed minded and don't like taking input from others. The results are great, but the problem is getting to accept that others are trying to help you out. Most people are closed minded and don’t like taking input from others.

]]> By: Armen Shirvanian http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-39768 Armen Shirvanian Sun, 19 Oct 2008 21:44:53 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-39768 The process of bringing out the best in others really starts to get working when a cycle begins where the others are supplementing your own movement of giving. Then, you start to get results for your assistance. The process of bringing out the best in others really starts to get working when a cycle begins where the others are supplementing your own movement of giving. Then, you start to get results for your assistance.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38898 Neil Patel Fri, 26 Sep 2008 04:56:51 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38898 I never really thought about energy... but that is probably one reason I am doing alright. A lot of the people I hang around with always have good energy. I never really thought about energy… but that is probably one reason I am doing alright. A lot of the people I hang around with always have good energy.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38888 Neil Patel Fri, 26 Sep 2008 04:44:04 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38888 Don't you mean encouragement should start at home? Don’t you mean encouragement should start at home?

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38882 Neil Patel Fri, 26 Sep 2008 04:28:23 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38882 Showing appreciation is very effective as long as you don't show too much. If you start showing too much it may not mean much. I guess it is all about finding a good balance. Showing appreciation is very effective as long as you don’t show too much. If you start showing too much it may not mean much. I guess it is all about finding a good balance.

]]> By: CCNA Training Videos http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38854 CCNA Training Videos Thu, 25 Sep 2008 14:46:09 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38854 Very true... it's not always about tangible things (i.e. output). Sometimes it is their energy, their ability to motivate others, to close the deal, to network effectively, to handle things you can't/won't/don't like to do. As long as the relationship is a symbiotic on, and you're better with them there than without, then it's a good one. If you're better (more productive, more confident, more energized) when they're not there, then it's time to cut them loose. Very true… it’s not always about tangible things (i.e. output). Sometimes it is their energy, their ability to motivate others, to close the deal, to network effectively, to handle things you can’t/won’t/don’t like to do.

As long as the relationship is a symbiotic on, and you’re better with them there than without, then it’s a good one. If you’re better (more productive, more confident, more energized) when they’re not there, then it’s time to cut them loose.

]]> By: Joe TR http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38844 Joe TR Thu, 25 Sep 2008 14:13:45 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38844 I think that by encouraging people to improve themselves you will be building your own solid enviroment where to grow both as a person and professionaly. Networking should start at home! I think that by encouraging people to improve themselves you will be building your own solid enviroment where to grow both as a person and professionaly. Networking should start at home!

]]> By: javed Khalil http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38840 javed Khalil Thu, 25 Sep 2008 14:00:29 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38840 I think we should appreciate people around us aloud for what they are best at. Every time when they perform at good level, they deserve to know that they have done well. We also should openly appreciate help from others. I mean I have seen many times that people usually take help but do not appreciate it in a big way saying that "Ok, that was also in my mind!". Instead of that we must be thankful in a good way. This has worked for me. People get close to you in this way and treat you as an honest person. I never forget to appreciate people genuinely whenever I can. "Thanks" is a magical word and "You have done it wonderful, Great job" brings miracles. I think we should appreciate people around us aloud for what they are best at. Every time when they perform at good level, they deserve to know that they have done well. We also should openly appreciate help from others. I mean I have seen many times that people usually take help but do not appreciate it in a big way saying that “Ok, that was also in my mind!”. Instead of that we must be thankful in a good way. This has worked for me. People get close to you in this way and treat you as an honest person. I never forget to appreciate people genuinely whenever I can. “Thanks” is a magical word and “You have done it wonderful, Great job” brings miracles.

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-38381 Neil Patel Wed, 17 Sep 2008 09:13:23 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-38381 You are totally right. Guys have a much harder time bringing out the best in others. It is probably because females more sensitive. You are totally right. Guys have a much harder time bringing out the best in others. It is probably because females more sensitive.

]]> By: Shilo Urban http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-37969 Shilo Urban Tue, 16 Sep 2008 01:13:20 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-37969 Positive reinforcement is key, not only to produce a job well done but also to create a healthy work environment. And in experience, females are much much better at this than males. Guys you need to step up! Positive reinforcement is key, not only to produce a job well done but also to create a healthy work environment.

And in experience, females are much much better at this than males. Guys you need to step up!

]]> By: Neil Patel http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-37824 Neil Patel Mon, 15 Sep 2008 15:22:25 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-37824 You are totally right. Problem is too many people have a different 3 C's concept: Command, command, and command. This is one reason why the world is messed up. You are totally right. Problem is too many people have a different 3 C’s concept: Command, command, and command. This is one reason why the world is messed up.

]]> By: Chris http://www.quicksprout.com/2008/08/25/ask-the-readers-are-you-bringing-out-the-best-in-others/#comment-37645 Chris Mon, 15 Sep 2008 03:56:21 +0000 http://www.quicksprout.com/?p=86#comment-37645 I live by the 3 C's. Commend, commend, commend. You can never go wrong when you commend someone. The only time you can go wrong is when the commendation is not real. Be sincere and you will find that they will bring out the best in themselves and this will encourage you. I live by the 3 C’s. Commend, commend, commend. You can never go wrong when you commend someone. The only time you can go wrong is when the commendation is not real. Be sincere and you will find that they will bring out the best in themselves and this will encourage you.

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